A few months ago some of us were getting in our small car to run an errand. When we got into the car we noticed that two flies had somehow gotten inside. We opened all four doors in hopes that they would go on their way and leave our car. One fly seemed to get the hint and left the car almost immediately. The other fly was a great deal more stubborn. It insisted on trying to fly through the front windshield. It beat its head against the glass repeatedly, I had to use my hand and help direct it out the open door.
Now normal people will have an incident like this and just move on with their day. Not me, I of course need to take this simple situation and see a God lesson in it. Humor me for a minute.
Aren't there times when we are all like the second fly? I know I can look back and see many times in my life where the second fly and I have lots in common. God has opened a door for me, but instead of going through the open door I insist on staying on my current path and beat my head against the glass. When that happens, I wonder if God looks at me the way I looked at the fly? "Over here, silly, there is lots of room for you to soar over here."
What about our children? Are there times when they feel like they are just beating their heads against the glass? Are we praying for guidance to help direct them through the open door that God has provided? Are we giving them opportunities to discover the path God has for them on their own, or our we just pushing them down the path we like the most? Boy, these are all tough questions!
When I look at our children, they are all so different. They have different talents, different gifts, different interests and different passions. It is hard to imagine where God might be leading them, or what situation God is going to use to direct them.
Currently, our oldest daughter is looking at colleges and universities. She has been looking at career choices and narrowing the list of jobs she might like and might not like. It is an overwhelming task at times, there are more universities than either of us ever imagined, and even more career choices. These are some big decisions we are asking a young person to make. It is certainly important for them to be looking to God for guidance.
Our daughter is a good athlete. Playing ball is one of her passions and one thing she is considering when looking at schools. So, a few months ago when she tore her meniscus her world seemed to be turned upside down. Typically a torn meniscus means surgery and sitting out her sport for four to six months, sometimes longer. There is not a time of year when she could sit for even four months and not miss either her high school season or her club season. So, we were anxiously waiting for the test results and the doctor's recommendations.
When we went to the doctor to discuss the test results and our options, we had already spent many days in prayer and had several discussion about what we thought some of our choices might be. However, we were surprised by his evaluation. She had only a partial tear of her meniscus and the tear happened to be located in the back of her knee. By God's great design, this area of the knee is the only area of the knee where the meniscus receives enough blood flow that it could possibly heal itself. Yes, heal itself, without surgery. He was however, very cautious, using the words "possibly" and "maybe" and "closely monitor. "
She was put on some detailed restrictions and enrolled in physical therapy. We went back to the doctor after 2 weeks, than 4 more weeks, than 6 more weeks, each time the restrictions became lighter, she was getting stronger, working harder and was able to start playing ball with a brace after only being off for a very short time. By the 6 week visit she was told that everything looked great and she had worked hard enough to earn full clearance to play. Praise God!
Now you might be wondering what this has to do with the fly? Well, although I would not wish a torn meniscus on anyone, this experience has given our daughter clear direction to where God is calling her and is excited about the future. God used a potentially horrible and scary situation to guide her through the open door that He had provided. She no longer needed to "beat her head" against the glass trying to create her own path. It is a beautiful thing.
Let me encourage you to step back and take a look at your circumstances. Is there a place in your life or in your children's lives where you are try to "go through the glass in the window" instead of "flying out through the open door?" Are there situations that seem to be devastating or extremely difficult right now that God could be using to direct your path? The scriptures are filled with people who were facing extremely hard times and God used them for His glory....Joseph, Daniel, Moses, Mary, the Maccabees, Matthew and on and on.
To be a competitive athlete and told that you have torn your meniscus can truly be devastating. However, when we remain faithful and trust God to lead us through our difficult circumstances we may see the great plans that He has and how He can take seemingly bad times and turn them into good. May God bless you and give you strength to see His hand guiding you through, especially in the hard times!
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